By Charles Ross


There are many reasons people struggle with unhappiness. In most cases, folks are not even sure of what happiness is. They may think that there is always something better to what they have in their lives. Everyone asks at some point, the question, why am I so unhappy with myself. However, it can be something temporary. Of course, it is something to take note of.

When this drags on for more than two weeks and you are still feeling out of sorts, you need to take action. When you neglect these feelings, you will find that it can be draining and exhausting. You will develop other problems. One can develop a little depression because of something that happens in their lives. This turns into a sense of low confidence and a low self esteem.

You may find that you are not happy because you have become depressed or anxious. There are people who have been walking around, feeling out of the ordinary with a change in behaviour for a really long time. Sometimes, you feel stuck in life and not having the courage to take the challenge to take the next step.

It can be easier to stay in your comfort zone, and continue with a routine which is very monotonous. It takes a lot of courage to make the next move. However, it will help you in the long run. A therapist will help you to get to this point so you are able to face your fears. Often, it is difficult to face your fears because of what you have been though in the past.

People work a lot or they go shopping which helps them to escape from everything else and puts them on a high. Other addictions develop and this is not uncommon, but obviously complications will exist with this as well. Loved ones should encourage the individual to go to therapy. There is so much that one can learn about themselves during this time.

However, it is important that loved ones encourage the individual to look for professional and specialized counseling or therapy. It is not necessary for someone like this to be walking around feeling anxious, depressed and afraid from one day to the next. Soldiers are strong, but when it comes to your emotions, blocking them out is actually not the best way in showing your strength.

Learning to feel is important, instead of simply running away. Of course, one can understand why the person will want to escape. It is easier to do this because facing your fears is never easy. However, when you are working with a therapist who offers this kind of support, it is easier to achieve your goals.

It is not easy to love other people when you can't love yourself, and this is what the therapist will help you with. It is the self talk which makes the situation worse. Often, it is only the individual who tells themselves that they are worse off than they actually are. This is due to negative thoughts in their mind, and this needs to be reversed.




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