I just read an article where the writer talked about how to be happy, and she said:
" Happiness is being happy with who you are and what you have "
pfff, I believe it's one of the worse believes you can possibly have.
Life isn't about staying the same person, life is about changing and growing:
Even if you don't want to, you're changing.
Just give a look at your photographs every year and you'll see that you're ... Ageing
And if you're not satisfied there are important reasons:
so changes need to be made.
It is worthless to be respectful and say that everything is all right.
Not being satisfied is an emotional feeling that tells you modify something.
So just being happy with an unsatisfying life is like being deaf to your own emotions and intuition.
Actually disapproval is negative when it turns into frustration.
Some people get exasperated, but they only whinge, and don't change in any way.
So frustration is just growing and growing.
But dissatisfaction is positive when it becomes a drive to switch, to grow, to learn, to experiment...
It creates the obligatory pain to move, to liberate your mind, try new concepts.
In that sense it's a terribly positive and strong warning, that everyone should hear.
Still there is one very important thing:
Even if you are not satisfied with who you are, you should love yourself just as you are now .
Many people wait to change and be a "better person" to love themselves
But loving yourself has to be be the start line for your transformation, not the end
Accept yourself and love yourself immediately, just the way that you are now
Self-love must be unconditional (and true love should be unconditional too incidentally)
If you love yourself now, you accept the grim reality of your self, and you get power to do it better
You can be dissatisfied and still love yourself , these are two fully different things
Just use your displeasure to mature and love yourself even more!
" Happiness is being happy with who you are and what you have "
pfff, I believe it's one of the worse believes you can possibly have.
Life isn't about staying the same person, life is about changing and growing:
Even if you don't want to, you're changing.
Just give a look at your photographs every year and you'll see that you're ... Ageing
And if you're not satisfied there are important reasons:
so changes need to be made.
It is worthless to be respectful and say that everything is all right.
Not being satisfied is an emotional feeling that tells you modify something.
So just being happy with an unsatisfying life is like being deaf to your own emotions and intuition.
Actually disapproval is negative when it turns into frustration.
Some people get exasperated, but they only whinge, and don't change in any way.
So frustration is just growing and growing.
But dissatisfaction is positive when it becomes a drive to switch, to grow, to learn, to experiment...
It creates the obligatory pain to move, to liberate your mind, try new concepts.
In that sense it's a terribly positive and strong warning, that everyone should hear.
Still there is one very important thing:
Even if you are not satisfied with who you are, you should love yourself just as you are now .
Many people wait to change and be a "better person" to love themselves
But loving yourself has to be be the start line for your transformation, not the end
Accept yourself and love yourself immediately, just the way that you are now
Self-love must be unconditional (and true love should be unconditional too incidentally)
If you love yourself now, you accept the grim reality of your self, and you get power to do it better
You can be dissatisfied and still love yourself , these are two fully different things
Just use your displeasure to mature and love yourself even more!
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To get a little more pointers on how to be happy just visit our blog howtobehappy.fr in english, or in French "Comment Etre Heureux et Heureuse"
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