Knowing About Anger Management Problems

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By Deborah Butler


Have you cried before because you lost something important to you? Did you jump in glee when your team finally won in a game? Did you feel sad when your friend leave you? For sure, your answers to those questions are all affirmative. Obviously, those emotions are very normal to everyone. But then again, expressing it too much might cause some harm. It might be on others or at yourself. Furthermore, too much crying is not normal. And so as too much expressing of anger. To those persons who cannot handle their fury well, an anger management counseling Seattle is recommended to them.

All humans have definitely experienced being angry towards something or someone. An elder suddenly started to complain and swear because the line for the ticket booth is too long and he is now hungry. A woman slapped her boyfriend because she caught him cheating. You too have that moment when your blood is starting to boil and going up to your head, making you explode. It is okay to feel that way, however, it will now be bad if you express it in a wrong way.

Let us have an example of situation. Hayley caught her sister, Lily, using her cell phone without asking permission. She was afraid that Lily will read her secret messages to her boyfriend. But Lily was stubborn and will not return it to her. As a result, Hayley became angry. In that situation, put yourself unto the shoes of Hayley. What will you do?

For sure, your answer would be stay calm and try to talk things out. That is ideal thing. However, for those people having some anger issues, that would not be their closest choice. Instead, they would immediately grabbed the hair of Lily and began beating the sister.

Feelings of resentment or rage might be normal. But if that feeling cannot be handled at all times, it could be a problem. The typical symptoms you see if a person has anger issues is how they express themselves almost every time in a furious manner. These persons could not calm down easily once they are mad.

Another sign is their level of aggression. Out of rage, they would physically harm that person and show some aggressive behaviour like beating, punching, yelling or using objects to displace their anger. And it would turn worse once alcohol and drugs are involved. They might even harm themselves in frustration.

You might think that angriness is normal but excessive angriness is already dangerous. Whenever you face that kind of issue, it is advisable to treat it. Otherwise, it would cause a social impairment to you. Furthermore, keeping it and venting it is not the ideal way to solve your anger problem.

In that case, a professional and medical advice from psychologists and guidance counsellors are helpful. They will then recommend the anger management therapy. This therapy might be done by individual or group. Moreover, clients will also be taught on controlling their rage and impulse as well teaching them some techniques for relaxation and breathing.

If this is also your problem, much better to seek a psychologist for this. Dealing with this might be hard. But if you have sincerity and courage to be well, this can be treated.




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