Dating begins when you've some way of connecting again with a woman you met. That is, you must have a way of calling her after your first meeting or you will never see her again.
Men treat a girl's phone number like it's the holy grail that they must get by the end of the evening. Being able to get a phone number is a challenge in itself. Like it or not, the choice to be in touch again is reliant on the girl. You can't do a thing about it if she does not provide you with her real phone number. No matter what you do, she has to be willing to volunteer the details herself.
Here are a number of tips you need to take before you can get a lady's phone number.
Step 1: Make a Good First Impression
While it's true that you should never judge a book by its cover, the books that have appealing things on the cover will be picked up first. You can increase your chances with a girl if you make a good first impression. In 30 seconds or less, a girl would know whether you're a man she would want to date, so make the first impression count. You cannot blame these women because they often get hit on by men. She cannot spend an hour figuring out that you're an interesting guy even if you clammed up when you approached her.
Step 2: Grab Her Attention
If you understand what makes a girl turn her head and give you her full attention, this step should be simple. If, for instance, all you can think about is the climate, you can be sure she will be bored to death. Keep in mind, a woman must make the decision to have a discussion with you before the conversation even happens. Have a list of openers ready if you have no idea how to grab a girl's full interest.
When a woman is bored with the discussion you're having, her focus slips further. She may look around in search of her acquaintances, or she could swap glances with other guys around. The point is, if you're boring, she will not willingly provide you with her number when you ask. In fact, she may decide she is done with the chat even before you can ask.
Step 3: Hook Her Into the Discussion
A good way to make a girl continue to talk to you is to let her do the talking. You're not just going to ask any random question, every question must be a way to get her to talk. You know about leading questions right? These are the types of questions you need to ask. A question is a very good one if it gets her talking and explaining her answer.
Useful conversation topics include why she's in that particular bar. You can also say something ambiguous to get her curious. Questions that can be answered by a yes or a no are not good for making conversation unless she is already hooked into the talk in the first place.
These guidelines will improve your probability of getting her number at the end of the night.
Men treat a girl's phone number like it's the holy grail that they must get by the end of the evening. Being able to get a phone number is a challenge in itself. Like it or not, the choice to be in touch again is reliant on the girl. You can't do a thing about it if she does not provide you with her real phone number. No matter what you do, she has to be willing to volunteer the details herself.
Here are a number of tips you need to take before you can get a lady's phone number.
Step 1: Make a Good First Impression
While it's true that you should never judge a book by its cover, the books that have appealing things on the cover will be picked up first. You can increase your chances with a girl if you make a good first impression. In 30 seconds or less, a girl would know whether you're a man she would want to date, so make the first impression count. You cannot blame these women because they often get hit on by men. She cannot spend an hour figuring out that you're an interesting guy even if you clammed up when you approached her.
Step 2: Grab Her Attention
If you understand what makes a girl turn her head and give you her full attention, this step should be simple. If, for instance, all you can think about is the climate, you can be sure she will be bored to death. Keep in mind, a woman must make the decision to have a discussion with you before the conversation even happens. Have a list of openers ready if you have no idea how to grab a girl's full interest.
When a woman is bored with the discussion you're having, her focus slips further. She may look around in search of her acquaintances, or she could swap glances with other guys around. The point is, if you're boring, she will not willingly provide you with her number when you ask. In fact, she may decide she is done with the chat even before you can ask.
Step 3: Hook Her Into the Discussion
A good way to make a girl continue to talk to you is to let her do the talking. You're not just going to ask any random question, every question must be a way to get her to talk. You know about leading questions right? These are the types of questions you need to ask. A question is a very good one if it gets her talking and explaining her answer.
Useful conversation topics include why she's in that particular bar. You can also say something ambiguous to get her curious. Questions that can be answered by a yes or a no are not good for making conversation unless she is already hooked into the talk in the first place.
These guidelines will improve your probability of getting her number at the end of the night.
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